Monday, May 18, 2009

Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul

by John and Stasi Eldredge,
Thomas Nelson, 2007

After reading Wild at Heart last year, I thought I would enjoy the companion book for women. Alas, not so.

The premise of the book is that every woman has three common desires: to be romanced, to play a role in her own adventures, and to display beauty. Sadly, many women do not get these desires met and end up depressed, angry, isolated, and tired. The authors believe that if women see God as the ultimate lover, look to Eve as their model of ideal womanhood, and form close, intimate friendships with one another, they will better get their needs met. This is not new material, and not every woman will agree with the foundational concepts on which the authors build their argument.

Not recommended. The writing style was challenging, and it took me about six weeks to plod through. You would spend your time more wisely with a book like Completely His: Loving Jesus without Limits by Shannon Ethridge.

1 comment:

Diane Girard said...

"every woman has three common desires: to be romanced, to play a role in her own adventures, and to display beauty"

I'm sure most women enjoy being romanced, but probably not all women do. As for "playing a role in her own adventures," I'll take the lead thanks, and I'm sure I'm not the only woman who thinks that way. It's a silly remark. "Display beauty," not every woman is 'beautiful' in the way the world defines beauty, and so what.

It sounds like a book to avoid.
DianeG